Don’t look to your partner to make you happy.
It’s his job to simply be who he is.
Either he has earned your love by being who he is, or he hasn’t.
It’s not his job to be doing things to "make you happier."
It's both your jobs, to simply make sure you love the other as you both are.
You don't love that which you seek to change; you love what already is.
Love is a response to what exists, not to what you wish,
what once was, or what merely might be.
Love applies to the actual, not the theoretical

quoted from dawn yang's blog.


this is so gawwwd sweeet